Comments on: Man Bashing

By: melissa

melissa — Mon, 08 Oct 2007 17:30:12 +0000

I always listen to people rip on their husbands and it bugs me, big time! It amazes me because, we women, aren’t perfect in our marriages, either! If you have a good husband who helps (in some capacity)around the house, with the kids, comes home for dinner and doesn’t complain if it sucks…then, so far, so good! I know my husbands shortcomings, he knows mine…it’s all good!
Melissa

By: Kelly

Kelly — Sat, 06 Oct 2007 01:53:30 +0000

Signed off too soon on my previous post. I also wanted to say. Hang in there and the less man bashing the better.:)
It gives you good practice for marriage.
Believe me, you will need it. Policy I am trying to follow: You will get only as good as you give.

By: Kelly

Kelly — Fri, 05 Oct 2007 23:39:27 +0000

Shay, All my “younger” friends that are/were single will tell you that I have never made marriage out to be a picnic. And I am not man bashing to them when I have spoken about my marriage. I think that single people need to realize that it is a 2 way street and that you have to prepared to make sacrifices. It doesn’t work unless you realize that. You will make mistakes and he will make mistakes. But at the end of the day the reason why I got married is because it was a calling God had on my life. I didn’t try to pick my mate. God picked him out for me. And He did a fine job. Some days I wonder what God was thinking, but He knows me better than I know myself and I think sharing my life with someone else and having a common goal to work toward is a very rewarding thing. In the beginning you marry for the romance part of love. In the end you’re married because it is what God has called you to do and you want to model Christ love
to your mate and the world. Just my 2Cents. From a girl who married at 27 and every person in my bridal party was or had been married except my younger brother.

By: Shalom

Shalom — Fri, 05 Oct 2007 14:06:31 +0000

And on another note, when single women constantly hear married women gripe about their husbands shortcomings, it scares them and makes them. It makes us want the romance but not commit. I thought this for a long time. It is taking awhile to revamp my thinking on marriage because what I’ve heard married women talk about.
I don’t man bash any more, and I don’t listen to married women gripe about their husbands but I’m still along way from signing a contract. We need to hear what makes it worth it because sitcoms, drama shows and real life are enough to make you decide that being in charge of your own financial security, and making yourself happy is better.

By: katrina little

katrina little — Fri, 05 Oct 2007 13:03:34 +0000

Why don’t you just open a can of worms.I have to say many times I think its easy to be with men than woman.Our husband is supose to be our best freind.Not to say its a cake walk.So many times if a friend ask us to do somthing o sure, but if our husbands ask we would say o I’m tired our I don’t have time ,I have to take care of the kids.We don’t mind telling our husbands no but we would never tell our friends no.Now days its like we have forgotten WE REAP WHAT WE SOW,like if we speak blessings over our husband that will come back to us.God also says,Speak those things that are not as though they are.If any one is having a hard time with their husband say , I have the best husband in the world he is so good to me .Alot of times they have been wonderful we have been hurt by other men so we have walls up and can’t feel that wonderful love.At the begining of my marriage I had been hurt so that I had all the walls up but now its wonderful.God heals all if we let him.My husband is the best because God worked on both of us.Angel,I can write a book on this.HA HA