Comments on: To Spank or Not To Spank? http://1smartmom.com/2006/12/05/to-spank-or-not-to-spank/ Nurturing Moms from Marriage to Motherhood & Everything in Between! Tue, 06 Jan 2009 07:46:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: karry http://1smartmom.com/2006/12/05/to-spank-or-not-to-spank/#comment-16082 karry Tue, 07 Aug 2007 15:34:45 +0000 http://1smartmom.com/index.php/2006/12/05/to-spank-or-not-to-spank/#comment-16082 i have a4 daughters and 2 sons. mi daughters are chloe 12, clara 7, and two twin 3 year olds sophie n steph. mi sons are caolin 2weeks and joel 1 year. last week the girls caolin, joel david mi husband and i were out for a walk. my elsdest daughter 12 was carrying joel. i had asked clara to give me caolins bottle from his bag that david had.She said no get it yourself. i sad any more of your cheek and i will smack you. she decided to tel me to piss off. we were sitting down at the time. her dad took her by the hand and smacked her then put her over his knee and pulled her skirt up and smacked her bare bottom.mi 12 year old gets the same as wel as mi 3 year old if their very naughty i have a4 daughters and 2 sons. mi daughters are chloe 12, clara 7, and two twin 3 year olds sophie n steph. mi sons are caolin 2weeks and joel 1 year. last week the girls caolin, joel david mi husband and i were out for a walk. my elsdest daughter 12 was carrying joel. i had asked clara to give me caolins bottle from his bag that david had.She said no get it yourself. i sad any more of your cheek and i will smack you. she decided to tel me to piss off. we were sitting down at the time. her dad took her by the hand and smacked her then put her over his knee and pulled her skirt up and smacked her bare bottom.mi 12 year old gets the same as wel as mi 3 year old if their very naughty

]]> By: Becky http://1smartmom.com/2006/12/05/to-spank-or-not-to-spank/#comment-15587 Becky Thu, 26 Jul 2007 07:59:53 +0000 http://1smartmom.com/index.php/2006/12/05/to-spank-or-not-to-spank/#comment-15587 Oh my gosh--I already commented on the post that contained this link. I agree 110% with everything you wrote here and try my darnest to do exactly the things you have so clearly enunciated. I have a small paddle I spank with. Actually it is one of those fly back toy paddles, with the elastic and the ball removed. I also spank bare bottom. That was the way I was usually spanked (and unlike your parents I was lucky in that I believe they spanked in the proper way)--and I know it made a much bigger impression than the ones over clothing. I have run into people that are appalled by this. But, I don't think it is all that unusual--and the truth be known, it was actually the traditional way to spank, back when spanking was more or less the norm. ~Becky Oh my gosh–I already commented on the post that contained this link. I agree 110% with everything you wrote here and try my darnest to do exactly the things you have so clearly enunciated.

I have a small paddle I spank with. Actually it is one of those fly back toy paddles, with the elastic and the ball removed.

I also spank bare bottom. That was the way I was usually spanked (and unlike your parents I was lucky in that I believe they spanked in the proper way)–and I know it made a much bigger impression than the ones over clothing. I have run into people that are appalled by this. But, I don’t think it is all that unusual–and the truth be known, it was actually the traditional way to spank, back when spanking was more or less the norm.

~Becky

]]> By: 1SmartMom.com » Blog Archive » "Questions" and Answers to Spanking http://1smartmom.com/2006/12/05/to-spank-or-not-to-spank/#comment-15518 1SmartMom.com » Blog Archive » "Questions" and Answers to Spanking Tue, 24 Jul 2007 08:12:35 +0000 http://1smartmom.com/index.php/2006/12/05/to-spank-or-not-to-spank/#comment-15518 [...] For more on my spanking philosophy, and guidelines, click here. [...] [...] For more on my spanking philosophy, and guidelines, click here. [...]

]]> By: Holly Schwendiman http://1smartmom.com/2006/12/05/to-spank-or-not-to-spank/#comment-1028 Holly Schwendiman Thu, 07 Dec 2006 00:12:48 +0000 http://1smartmom.com/index.php/2006/12/05/to-spank-or-not-to-spank/#comment-1028 Just wanted to share that we're on the same page, dear! ;o) Hugs, Holly <a href="http://www.hollyscorner.com" rel="nofollow">Holly's Corner</a> Just wanted to share that we’re on the same page, dear! ;o)

Hugs,
Holly
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]]> By: Kelly http://1smartmom.com/2006/12/05/to-spank-or-not-to-spank/#comment-1026 Kelly Wed, 06 Dec 2006 16:12:02 +0000 http://1smartmom.com/index.php/2006/12/05/to-spank-or-not-to-spank/#comment-1026 Just had to jump in on this one, for a moment. Gabe is asleep. Great article Angel. Good guidelines. And yes, I agree that spanking is a necessary tool for discipline. I was spanked and not in an abusive way at all. My parents took the scriptures very literally. We actually had a rod. We use several forms of punishment at our home. Spanking is reserved for the serious stuff. Like lying or disrespecting your parent. Using a "if this" "then that" chart is helpful...so that parents and kids know how many "spanks" you get for the offense. Keeps parents in check and the child doesn't have room to negotiate. It's in writing. Being consistent in your discipline is the most important thing. And the hardest..... Just had to jump in on this one, for a moment. Gabe is asleep.
Great article Angel. Good guidelines. And yes, I agree that spanking is a necessary tool for discipline. I was spanked and not in an abusive way at all. My parents took the scriptures very literally. We actually had a rod. We use several forms of punishment at our home. Spanking is reserved for the serious stuff. Like lying or disrespecting your parent. Using a “if this” “then that” chart is helpful…so that parents and kids know how many “spanks” you get for the offense. Keeps parents in check and the child doesn’t have room to negotiate. It’s in writing.
Being consistent in your discipline is the most important thing. And the hardest…..

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